Posts tagged Self Love
Why do YOU Judge?

The only reason we spend so much time judging others is because we are insecure in ourself. We look for something to feed off, to grow ourselves up; to convince ourselves WE are worthy by focussing on the darker aspects in others. We judge these aspects so harshly because we are too afraid to even consider that they are within us too. Deeply. The deeper we judge and point the finger outwardly, the deeper the pain and shame we are feeling about ourselves. We judge because we are ashamed. But there is nothing to shame. Only forgiveness, only permission, only compassion. 

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The Power of "Fuck It"

Being jealous, greedy, and selfish suck, but resisting them isn't going to release them. I believe that saying fuck it, accepting these qualities, surrendering to the fact that these qualities are apart of us is one of the best step forwards in not allowing these qualities to have power over us. Just because we pretend to not have certain qualities doesn't mean they aren't within us. I believe the best thing we can do is be honest with ourselves; to be compassionate with ourselves, and to fuckin' let go of the crazy high expectations we have of ourselves to be perfect.

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